Everyone knows clitoral and vaginal orgasms. But did you know that a woman can reach climax just by stimulating the breasts and nothing more?
Here I’ll explain how to give your partner a nipple orgasm.
A woman can typically reach the climax by stimulating the clitoris, the other is the G-spot massage.
Nipples can be just as sensitive as the clitoris
The breasts, especially the nipples, are much more sensitive than has long been assumed.
A study in the Journal of Sexual Medicine has now shown that the stimulation of the nipple activates the similar areas in the brain that are stimulated when the clitoris is stimulated.
In another study, which also appeared in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, discovered that 82 percent of all women claimed that stimulating the nipples greatly increased their desire for sex.
The reason for this is a woman’s breasts are directly connected to her vagina area by nerve impulses and hormones, including energetic pathways.
Women with smaller breasts are often more sensitive than larger fuller ones because the nerve endings are closer together because they contain less fatty tissue.
6 Steps to reach a nipple orgasm
How exactly should you touch a woman so that she can achieve a nipple orgasm through the stimulation on her breast?
Most men include the breasts in foreplay, but they often use it to get themselves in the mood.
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Step 1: Admire her breasts
Men are highly visible creatures, and a woman’s breasts are the most visible embodiment of her femininity.
They are also an extension of her heart. What this means is the more you adore her breasts, naturally the more you show her that you think she is a beautiful, sensual, and sexy woman.
When this happens she will open up more and invite you to receive her essence wholeheartedly with open arms.
Breasts are considered sacred in many cultures.
Gentlemen – In public (glance but don’t stare please).
It’s important to compliment your partner on her body and physical form, and use gestures to show her that you think her body including her breasts are exceptionally beautiful.
Acknowledge her for the goddess that she is.
Step 2: Get permission
Even if you fully know your partner, don’t just touch. In doing so, you immediately destroy the possibility of building trust. Always ask first if you can touch her breasts or any part of her body. This is especially important in the beginning, but helps your partner understand that you value how she feels and her needs are important.
Plus, you may learn new things about your partner that you previously never knew.
Step 3: Kiss her passionately
The tongue is covered with thousands of highly sensitive nerve endings that are linked to almost every part of the body (similar to the acupressure points in the feet, this includes the breasts.
A passionate kiss will make your partner’s nipples more firm and erect. It also stimulates blood flow and the release of hormones throughout the body including the breasts.
Be patient and take your time, the longer and more intensely you kiss, the wetter and more open your loved one will become.
4th step: Increase your anticipation
After you’ve been given permission to touch and your loved one is in the mood you can slowly and carefully approach the breasts.
The emphasis is on “careful”. Do not immediately grab the nipples and twist like a screwdriver, instead slowly stroke them as if by chance – your loved one is still dressed (ideally she’s does not wear a bra under her shirt).
In particular, focus yourself on the sides of her breasts, slowly tracing the contours of her breast and the lines below. In between, stroke other areas of her body like her arms and thighs. Allow yourself as much time as you need.
Alternate between stroking her nipples and her body, her nipples should have become more firm by now.
Perhaps your partner now wants you to take off her top. Resist the request for a brief moment to increase her arousal.
Remember, the man should take the lead most of the time!
Step 5: Get down to business
It’s time to take off her shirt. Next, concentrate on your loved one’s breasts and put your own excitement on the back burner for now. Put her needs front and center, and let her know that her needs are very important to you.
With the following techniques you can slowly but surely bring your loved one to a peak ecstatic state:
- First cover her chest with your entire palm
- Then grasp her nipple between two fingers. Ask if she wants it more a little softer or harder.
- You can use your tongue to slowly lick her nipple in a circular motion. Keep in mind this area is extremely sensitive and you may want to circle your tongue on the perimiter of the nipple first before proceeding to the center.
- Then, take her nipple between your lips (you can gently squeeze one nipple with two fingers while nibbling and kissing the other, as to stimulate both simultaneously).
- Tease the nipple with your tongue
- Suck gently on her nipple – remember, better too gently than too hard.
- Try blowing gently over her nipples as you exhale.
- Then use your entire tongue: the soft underside and the rough upper side stimulate different sensations.
- Coconut oil also works well.
- Those who like it harder can use sex toys, such as special nipple suckers or nipple clamps if that’s your thing
- Take your time.
Step 6: Don’t stress yourself, just enjoy the process and stay fully present
The sensitivity of a women’s breasts is strongly related to her cycle.
This means, on some days of the month she can practically explode when you touch her nipples, and on other days she may not want her nipples to be touched at all.
Always try to listen to your lovers needs and desires at all times and also respect them when she doesn’t want to be touched.
But even without a nipplegasm, it is always worthwhile to devote yourself extensively to your partner’s breasts, remember, she’s a goddess that should be revered as a sacred being.
This is how you truly arouse her and make her melt like butter, this is what the majority of women desire at heart.
Conclusion: The breastgasm makes sex and the relationship so much better
How often do you fully devote yourself to your partner’s breasts of your during sex or foreplay?
By devoting yourself to her presence, you not only show her that you are willing to prioritize her pleasure, but you also introduce her to a completely new sexual experience that can absolutely blow both of your minds.
Even if it doesn’t work the first time, try to stay tuned, because your loved one has to get used to your new level of presence and attentiveness, because beautiful breasts deserve your full attention in any case.